Jawaan

1- Never forget romance

Dont underestimate the power of a sweet word or a warm caress, a candlelight dinner accompanied with music, it can work wonders. So despite of your hectic schedules find the time to express your love and never take your partner for granted.

2- Dont lose the sense of humor

Trying to lighten up a gloomy situation, looking at the bright side of the things would certainly be the positive and right way to deal with the difficult times.

3- Keep the respect for each other

If you don’t have admiration for each other, things will not work. An indication of lack of compassion, good manners and mutual respect especially during heated discussions or difficult situations will be the poison that kills your love and marriage gradually. Don’t let anything get in the way of respecting each other.

4- Dont handcuff your partner

Marriage is not a prison sentence; it’s a lifetime commitment of love, companionship and understanding. You both need breathing space, that way love will flourish and grow.

5- Dont struggle over authority and power

Marriage is certainly not a battle field. You are not opponents, you are companions. In a marriage you must learn to compromise and to let go every once in a while, if you find your partner is getting ready for a big fight, surprise him/her by giving in, then you can find the right time for a comprehensive discussion if necessarily.

6- Be honest

Face your problems, admit that they exist and work on solving them. Hiding behind a screen will not make them disappear, and ignoring them will only build them up into a dormant volcano ready to erupt at any time, pouring out lava of pain, anger and disappointment.

7- Keep the balance between giving and taking

Love is all about giving, but mind you, this does not mean that one party should take advantage of the other; it can’t mean endless giving from one partner and endless taking from the other. There is a thin line between the two partners of giving and taking each in his way.

8- It is just the two of you

Keep your marriage details and problems for yourselves and dont let people influence your marriage. Always remember that anyone
beside you and your partner is a third party even your mother, sister, and best friend.

9- Keep marriage sexually satisfying

Dont be embarrassed to talk about your sexual needs or fears with your partner, if you are not satisfied in bed or if you feel that your partner has a sexual problem, choose the right moment and discuss it with him.

10- Its takes time

Both of you are used to different things, different habits; how you eat, when you sleep and even when and what to watch in TV, so you have to understand that it is take time and effort from both of you to get used to living together.